Which comments by a nurse are likely to help a patient cope by addressing the mediators of the stress response? (Select all that apply.)

A) "A divorce, while stressful, can be the beginning of a new, better phase of life."
B) "You mentioned your spirituality. Are there aspects of your faith that could be helpful to you at this time?"
C) "Journaling often promotes awareness of how experiences have affected people."
D) "It seems to me you are overreacting to this change in your life."
E) "There is a support group for newly divorced persons in your neighborhood."

Stress mediators are factors that can help persons cope by influencing how they perceive and respond to stressors; they include personality, social support, perceptions, and culture. Suggesting that a divorce may have positive as well as negative aspects helps the patient to alter perceptions of the stressor. Journaling increases self-awareness regarding how life experiences may have shaped how we perceive and respond to stress (or how our personality affects how we respond to stressors). A loan could help the patient by reducing the financial pressures. Participation in support groups is an excellent way to expand one's support network relative to specific issues. Many persons derive comfort and support from participation in faith-based interventions. The incorrect response demonstrates judging, which is non-therapeutic communication by the nurse and would not facilitate coping.