What is meant by the nurse's being "present" with a patient? Select all that apply.

A) Being open to patient's beliefs and concerns
B) Setting the agenda and leading discussions
C) Allowing the patient to tell stories about his illness
D) Using active listening skills

Being "present" means to be with the patient and family in meaningful ways.This requires not only a nurse's actual presence at the bedside,but also for him to be open to issues and concerns of the patient.Presence is allowing the patient to lead discussions,set the agenda,and control the conversation.It involves sincere communication and being fully available to the patient,and might include listening to the patient's "stories" about his illness.Active and focused listening is also a quality of being present with the patient.