Jamie,a systemic counselor,is working with Don,who reports having repeated arguments several time a week with his girlfriend because he gets upset when she is running late.Which of the following is an example of a suggestion Jamie might make to interrupt and alter this pattern?

A) Don should avoid saying anything to his girlfriend.
B) Don should first give her a sincere compliment before making a comment about her running late.
C) Don should tell his girlfriend about he feels unloved when she runs late.
D) Don should firmly tell her that if she is late again, he will break up with her.

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Zybrea Knight · Accepted Answer

Final Answer : B, Explanation :  Suggesting that Don start the conversation with a sincere compliment can help break the pattern of repeated arguments and potentially diffuse any tension or negativity that may arise from bringing up the issue of lateness. It also sets a more positive tone for the conversation. The other options either avoid addressing the issue (A), place blame or ultimatums on the girlfriend (C, D), or do not offer a solution for altering the pattern.

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