Healthy self-disclosure in a relationship includes pointing out a partner's shortcomings in order to help them be better a better person.

Healthy self-disclosure in a relationship involves sharing personal information about oneself with the partner in a way that is honest and promotes understanding and closeness. It does not involve pointing out a partner's shortcomings in a critical or judgmental way. Instead, effective communication in a relationship involves expressing concerns or disagreements in a constructive and respectful manner, and seeking solutions together as a team.