Briefly describe three strategies to minimize misunderstandings and avoid pseudoconflict.

-Check your perceptions by asking for clarification of what you don't understand.
-Listen between the lines by looking for puzzled or quizzical facial expressions in your partner.
-Establish a supportive rather than defensive climate for conversation by avoiding calculating,controlling,using manipulative strategies,being aloof,acting superior,or rigidly asserting that you're always right.